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| After the storm - a beautiful rainbow appear |
Recently I attended a conference for caregivers. Caregivers labor sacrificially in the rudimentary care of loved ones who are losing physical and mental capacity. Caregivers are the unsung heroes living in the shadows of the chronically ill. This conference was designed as a reminder for the caregiver to take care of themselves so they can better care for their loved one.
A motivational speaker began the day with a story:
A young student came home with a failing grade on a final exam. Entering her home, she went to her mother sobbing. Her mother asked her what was the matter. The student showed her mother the exam with the "F" written at the top of the page. Without skipping a beat the mother told her daughter, "Honey, your future never looked brighter!" Confused at her mother's response the daughter said, "Mama, I failed the class and I need this class to graduate." Her mother looked at her with hope in her eyes and said, "Darling, when you take the course over, you will be more prepared and ahead of all the other students. You will surely do well. Your future never looked brighter."
It was at that moment that the mother took a negative situation and instilled hope in her daughter. She did take the class over and she passed going on to graduate.
When you are faced with a crisis, how do you view your situation?
The east coast experienced tumultuous flooding and devastation due to the recent attack of Hurricane Irene. My niece had a tree collapse through the roof of her home. The tree split the roof in half and demolished many possessions including her computer.
Can I say to her, "Your future never looked brighter?"
Let's consider that thought. Her house was an older home. With her faithful homeowner's insurance payments, she is now entitled to receive a new roof and replacement of her valuable possessions with newer possessions. She has not won the lottery, however, she will have her home repaired and it will be nicer than it was before the hurricane.
Changing our view of a crisis or setback to see the opportunity and good fortune will instill hope and inspire new goals.
It has been said that failure is an event which does not need to control the future. Are you letting failures hold you back? It may be time to reframe your view of the failed event and see it as an opportuity. Afterall, your future never looked brighter.
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